sick of pointless rules?US TOO.
Your wedding day should be exactly what you want to make it, and nothing less. Maybe you want to go canoeing with your family on Wednesday and then get married at a beach on Thursday. Or perhaps you’d prefer to explore a new town and climb a lighthouse just the two of you. An elopement is doing exactly what you want to do, regardless of whatever rules or expectations exist. An elopement is whatever YOU want it to be.